Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Heja Sverige!

Again, this is old news, but it's a good story. We had one week in early September between when Paul finished in Munich and his classes started again in Oxford, so we though we'd take a trip somewhere in Europe. We'd been wanting to visit Sweden for a while, especially since Paul had never been there, and coincidentally Ryan Air was having a sale on airfare to Gothenberg so we decided to go for it. And to make it even better, I e-mailed my cousin Fredrik and found out all my cousins would be around during our visit! It's kind of complicated how we're all related, but basically my Grandmother (on my mother's side) met her Swedish half brother for the first time when they were both grown, and our families have stayed in touch since. I'm so glad I have that connection, because the rest of my family didn't stay in touch with their Swedish relatives once they hopped on the boat in the early 1900's, at least not for long enough for me to know anyone.

As for our trip, it couldn't have been better. First, we stayed with my mom's first cousins in Trollhattan, which is where my great-grandfather was born. It's also where they make Saabs, and they have a movie studio that they call "Trolley-wood", where some big time movies have been filmed.

Here's me at the Royal Moose Hunting Museum in Halleberg-Hunneberg. Every two years the king goes on his official hunt, and this museum was built to educate people about the moose and the history of the hunt.
From Sweden 2008


Here's one of the specimens in the museum:
From Sweden 2008


After we went to the museum, we drove around the hunting grounds, which are like a national park. We did manage to run into some moose on the prowl for apples!
From Sweden 2008


Here we are at the edge of the park near lake Vanern.
From Sweden 2008


Next we went to Hamburgsund, on the West Coast. Ingegerd (who's my mom's first cousin) kindly let us stay at her summer house out there, and Gunnel (my mom's other first cousin) kindly let us borrow their car. Although it wasn't warm summer weather in September, it was sunny and nice enough for us to go for a pleasant stroll around the area in the morning. Here I am on the street in front of the house:
From Sweden 2008


Swedish beaches are really rocky, and the water is cold, so it's a different experience from going to a beach in, say, Miami. Walking around the coastline, we came upon this little fishing village - Tegelstrand. I have no idea how long it's been there, but it looks like something out of a storybook.
From Sweden 2008


We spent the afternoon driving around Bohuslan, which is a very historic area of Sweden. There's evidence of people living there as far back as 3,000 years ago! In that time, Sweden's climate was like the south of France, until it started to get colder around 500BC. They were even growing grapes for wine back then! We stopped at the museum at Tanum (which is free!), where they've built some houses like people would have lived in back then. They kind of remind me of the English cottages with thatched roofs. Here's me coming out of one:
From Sweden 2008


That evening, we joined my Grandmother's brother Stig and his wife Greta for dinner in Högsäter. They have a gorgeous historic home up there, where they spend their summers. Greta treated us to a tasty meal and we caught up on some family news, and I got to practice some broken Swedish. Here we are at the dinner table:
From Sweden 2008


So that was what we did during the week. On the weekend, we went to Gothenberg and stayed at Fredrik's apartment. What was even better than free accomodation was that all my cousins are now living in or near Gothenberg! A lot had happened since I visited 5 years ago. Two of my cousins got married, and there were a couple of new baby cousins to meet.

Here's my cousin Peter, his wife Lijana and their super cute 9-month-old son, Vincent
From Sweden 2008


Peter is taking a few months paternity leave from work to be home with Vincent while Lijana goes back to study dentistry. Swedish law allows either the father or mother to take leave from work, with full pay, to care for a new baby. Lijana took the first few months, and now Peter is taking the next few months. Aren't you jealous? Kind of makes you think, higher taxes, but free school and crazy benefits like this - not a bad trade-off, I think!

And now for something that's not quite as cute. As a joke, my cousin Helene and her husband Karim brought us some Surstromming, which is a fish delicacy. What makes it a joke? Well, if you had ever smelled it, you'd understand. They used to make this stuff when salt was really expensive - instead of preserving the fish with salt, they used yeast, which basically ferments it. It's so vile that the tin actually bulges under pressure - that's how you know it's good! Paul had mentioned the night before that he liked to try new or exotic foods, and he already knew he liked 'sill' (pickled herring) which they usually use to impress foreigners, so they had to take it a step further. Well, not to be outdone, Paul had to follow through and try the stuff. Anna, Fredrik's girlfriend, understandibly did not want this thing opened in her home, so we had to bring it outside to try it out. So we knew it'd be stinky, but not that stinky! Apparently no one had tried it before, so all of the guys (except Fredrik - smart guy) tried it. Here's Karim opening the tin, which makes a sound like a deflating tire when you open it:
From Sweden 2008


If you've got a good connection, you can see Paul trying the surstromming on video, with Swedish commentary:


Here's my cousin Anders (with absolutely adorable daughter Maja) trying the surstromming. I actually hadn't seen him for something like 15 years, during which time he got married and had three daughters, who I'm sure are also gorgeous.
From Sweden 2008


Well, I think that's enough about the stinky fish. We topped off the night with some of Fredrik's tasty cocktail concoctions and some intense debates about world politics and everything else that comes to mind at 2AM after three apple martinis.

And to finish off, here's a nice shot of most of us the next morning at Peter and Lijana's place (they made us an awesome waffle breakfast! yum!)
From Sweden 2008


I'm so thankful we had a chance to see/meet the Swedes. I hope they come visit us in the US!

Thursday, October 16, 2008

The Last Hurrah in Oxford

It's taken me a while to post since we left Oxford! The most notable thing about moving out was the huge amount of waste. Our apartment trash building was literally overflowing - probably three or four dumpsters worth of perfectly good, usable household goods and clothes thrown out because people couldn't take them overseas or wherever they were going, and didn't know where to go to donate them. Luckily our friends Mikki and Brian were staying in England, and they were able to use a bunch of our household goods and appliances, so that worked out great. They were nice enough to host us for two days between when we got kicked out of student housing and when our cruise left. I'll put up a separate post about the cruise, so for this one, I'll focus on our last few days in Oxford.

We moved out on Monday 15 Sept, and I worked until Friday 12 Sept, when there was a big end-of-year formal dinner at the Oxford Spires Hotel just outside the city center.

From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008


Here's Paul with 3/4 of his team from their summer project in Munich.
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008


And here's nearly all of my girl group - I miss them so much!
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008


And I love this couple picture! We've got Tetsuya and Kaori (from Japan), Adrian and Alina (from Romania), Brian and Mikki (USA) and us!
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008


The next day there was a closing ceremony for the students at Templeton College. Their actual graduation doesn't happen until a later date because there is limited space at each graduation ceremony and the whole class can't go at once. It's kind of a strange system, but it keeps with the tradition of having graduation in the Sheldonian Theater. Paul scheduled his for next August.

So, here we are on the way to the party, standing by the Said Business School's ox (get it? OX-ford). I saw this thing every day on my way back from work.
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008


And here's Paul with some classmates all dressed up in their subfusc (and perhaps a future Oxford student in the mix)
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008

During the ceremony, they had some speeches and then called each student's name and had some hand-shaking. The speech theme seemed to be poetry, and the "taking the road less traveled" one was emphasized in more than one, if I recall correctly. I suppose you can't argue with that since not all that many people go to Oxford. Overall, it was pretty much the same as any graduation ceremony I've been to, only this one was nice and short (any of my Wellesley classmates may remember that our ceremony went over schedule by 4 hours in a hot tent). Here's Paul's hand-shaking in action:
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008


And here's Paul afterwards with an objet d'art in the Templeton garden
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008


And here we both are outside - it was an unusually nice day!
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008


After the ceremony, we realized we'd have to start and finish packing and cleaning out our apartment in the next day and a half, but we made time for one last dinner out with some friends.
From ClosingCeremony - Sept 2008